Too Much Information About Who You Are

by: Terri Giosia

So it’s the 3rd or 4th date and he’s talked about those babes running on the beach and how they make his mouth water and he’s a real “butt guy”. You’ve mentioned that you’re PMS’ing and don’t want to sit in the theatre for 2 hours otherwise you’ll kill someone!

Ahhhhhhh there are certain things that you just shouldn’t mention, right off. Impressions count and yes, one should like you for yourself…but to be honest, no one really needs to know you’re PMS’ing (it’s truly an escape goat for women who want to bitch and complain).

Here are a few things you should avoid talking about or at least not excessively!

1. EX’S!!! You met someone new, so it’s a new slate. Anyone who talks excessively about their past partners should ask themselves “am I really over them?”

2. Favorite sexual pleasures with ex’s. When your relationship turns physical, the other person will unconsciously be wondering if they measure up!

3. Talk for hours about your pet! He’s a cute puppy and you’re kitten’s as adorable as one of those commercials but let’s be honest this is your pet, not theirs.

4. Please don’t mention the fact that you’re 37 and your clock is ticking. Enjoy and get to know someone doesn’t mean letting them know they could be a potential donor.

In the beginning, dating is about getting to know someone. So be a good listener. Ask questions, and from those answers you’re asking more questions….you want to know what you have in common from being a sushi lover to what’s their favorite movie, are they are a lover of dance or art….are they couch potatoes or night owls and party the night away.

Be yourself, enjoy and remember….be with someone that makes you laugh, is interested and interesting, respects you’re individuality and has integrity.

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