Being Single

The old adage “aging gracefully” is relative. What is graceful for some is not for others. I have found that it is very different for men and women. What happens when we age, besides the obvious laugh lines, or as I prefer calling them “wisdom lines”?Aging for women brings on confidence, self assurance, energy, drive, knowledge about who they are and a higher sex drive. (More women over 40 open up their own business, change careers and/or go...

I have been single most of my adult life. Married young at 23, widowed by 29, I’ve had one long term relationship, dated countless men, indulged in interludes of passion and lust that have allowed me to discover what I desire and what I don’t. On my journey I believe I’ve discovered the “secret”.

Is this thought outdated? A man who is attracted to you will want to sleep with you. However if you really want that man and would like to build a relationship it is absolutely essential that you do not sleep with him in the early stages.

There’s a new woman staring back in the mirror, she’s got a glow, new hair cut and color, a fresh attitude and a new found freedom. You’ve got the art of flirting down to a “t” and you’ve practiced a very seductive smile that is genuine and natural…. Bravo!!! And keep up the work that you’ve done as it will only empower and enable you to be “the best you can be” and now you are about to get back into the dating scene.

So it’s the 3rd or 4th date and he’s talked about those babes running on the beach and how they make his mouth water and he’s a real “butt guy”. You’ve mentioned that you’re PMS’ing and don’t want to sit in the theatre for 2 hours otherwise you’ll kill someone!